Introduction
Don’t Hold Back the Tears: The Story of “Big Girls Don’t Cry”
“Big Girls Don’t Cry,” a song synonymous with the soulful vocals of Frankie Valli and the smooth harmonies of The Four Seasons, isn’t just a catchy tune. It’s a chart-topping classic that etched its place in pop and doo-wop history in 1962.
Born from the minds of songwriters Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” wasn’t originally intended for The Four Seasons. The story goes that the duo initially envisioned it for a female singer. However, after hearing Valli’s powerful voice deliver the song’s emotional plea, they knew they had found the perfect fit.
Released as the third single from their debut album, “Sherry & 11 Others,” “Big Girls Don’t Cry” became an instant sensation. It soared to number one on the Billboard Hot 100, mirroring the success of its predecessor, “Sherry.” The song’s reign at the top lasted five weeks, solidifying The Four Seasons’ place as rising stars.
Despite its immense popularity, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” curiously never made it onto the Billboard year-end charts for 1962 or 1963. Nevertheless, the song’s impact transcended chart numbers. Its relatable lyrics, offering a comforting message to a heartbroken girl, resonated with audiences. It became an anthem of strength and resilience, masking vulnerability beneath a facade of courage – a sentiment that continues to resonate with listeners today.
So, the next time you hear those opening falsettos of “Big Girls Don’t Cry,” remember the journey behind the song. It’s a testament to the power of collaboration, the unexpected rise to fame, and the enduring appeal of music that speaks to the heart.