Introduction
ABBA Gets Real: A Look at “Love Isn’t Easy (But It Sure Is Hard Enough)”
Often overshadowed by ABBA’s mega-hits filled with catchy melodies and whimsical themes, “Love Isn’t Easy (But It Sure Is Hard Enough)” stands out as a song that tackles love’s complexities. Released in 1973 as part of their debut album “Ring Ring,” it offers a refreshingly honest perspective on relationships.
Composed towards the end of the “Ring Ring” recording sessions, the song wasn’t initially planned for the album. However, its unique sound and relatable message earned it a spot on the B-side of the single “I Am Just a Girl.” Interestingly, “Love Isn’t Easy” is credited solely to Björn Ulvaeus and Benny Andersson, a departure from the usual songwriting partnership that also included ABBA’s two female vocalists, Agnetha Fältskog and Frida Lyngstad.
This shift is reflected in the song’s style. While known for their pop masterpieces, ABBA dips their toes into country rock territory with “Love Isn’t Easy.” The use of acoustic guitars and a more laid-back tempo creates a warm atmosphere that perfectly complements the song’s message.
The lyrics themselves are a testament to ABBA’s ability to capture the essence of human experience. Gone are the fantastical narratives and carefree emotions often associated with their music. Instead, “Love Isn’t Easy” delivers a dose of reality, acknowledging that love can be challenging and require hard work. The iconic line, “Love isn’t just a sensation / Some of the time it gets rough,” resonates with anyone who has experienced the ups and downs of a relationship.
Despite its honest portrayal of love’s struggles, “Love Isn’t Easy” doesn’t wallow in negativity. The playful repetition of “Love isn’t easy but it sure is hard enough” adds a touch of humor, suggesting that even with its difficulties, love is worthwhile.
So, before diving into the melody of “Love Isn’t Easy (But It Sure Is Hard Enough),” prepare to be surprised by a different side of ABBA. It’s a song that celebrates the realness of love, reminding us that true connection often comes with its fair share of challenges.