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A Challenge in Researching “Should I Laugh or Cry”

Unfortunately, there seems to be a discrepancy in the available information about the song “Should I Laugh or Cry” by ABBA.

While it’s widely recognized as a powerful and evocative track, specific details about its creation, inspiration, or historical context are surprisingly limited. The song was originally released as the B-side to the singles “One of Us” and “When All Is Said and Done” in 1981, and later included on the compilation album “Thank You for the Music” in 1983.

Despite its absence in the band’s official biographies or extensive discographies, “Should I Laugh or Cry” remains a fan favorite. Its inclusion on the “Thank You for the Music” compilation suggests that ABBA themselves valued the song.

Given the limited available information, it’s challenging to write a comprehensive and historically accurate 300-word introduction without relying on speculation.

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