Introduction
The Way Old Friends Do: A Timeless Ballad of Enduring Friendship (or Love?)
ABBA’s “The Way Old Friends Do” might surprise you. Released in 1980 on their iconic album “Super Trouper,” the song wasn’t a chart-topping single but has become a fan favorite for its heartwarming message.
While never officially confirmed by songwriters Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus, the lyrics leave room for interpretation. On the surface, they paint a beautiful picture of a lifelong friendship. The song speaks of shared memories, unspoken understanding, and a bond that transcends time. Lines like “We don’t need to talk for hours / We can sit in comfortable silence” resonate with anyone who cherishes a close friend.
However, for some listeners, the lyrics hint at a deeper connection. The tenderness in the vocals, particularly Agnetha Fältskog’s, and the yearning melody suggest a romantic undercurrent. Phrases like “We hold on to a feeling / That we just can’t let go” leave the possibility of a past love transformed into a cherished friendship.
This ambiguity adds to the song’s charm. Whether it’s about the unwavering support of friends or the bittersweet beauty of a love story that couldn’t be, “The Way Old Friends Do” evokes a sense of nostalgia and connection. Performed live on their 1979-80 tours, ABBA would often move to the front of the stage for this song, creating a more intimate moment with their audience.
So, as you listen to “The Way Old Friends Do,” let the music guide your interpretation. It’s a song that celebrates the enduring power of human connection, in whatever form it takes.